Obituary of Jay Caffiero

Jay L. Caffiero, 49, of Asbury, NJ, died suddenly Saturday, November 1, 2008. Jay was born in East Orange, NJ, the son of Joseph W. and Patricia (Reed) Caffiero. Jay was a lifelong resident of New Jersey, and owner/operator of Jay Caffiero Construction for the past 24 years. He was an outdoorsman enjoying golfing, fishing and gardening. He was an avid Jets fan. Jay loved to spend time with his family especially his two children. Survivors: Jay is survived by his beloved wife of 12 years, Debbie (Curtis) Caffiero; his seven year old twins, Patrick and Rosemarie; his doting parents, Pat and Joe Caffiero of Piscataway; his mother and father-in-law, Donna and Jim Curtis; his brother-in-law, John Curtis and his wife Susan; his sister-in-law, Dawn Caccavelli and her husband Ozzie; one niece, Kassandra Curtis; two nephews, Matthew Curtis and Anthony Caccavelli; an aunt, Marie Reed of AZ; and four cousins all of Arizona, Kevin Marshall, Marybeth Gareis, Shari Rowe, Beverly Marshall. Services: Friends may call Wednesday from 2:00 pm to 5:00 pm at DeVoe Funeral Service Inc., 136 West Washington Ave, Washington, NJ. A funeral service will be held Wednesday at 5:00 pm at the funeral home. A private cremation will be in H.G. Smith Crematory, Stroudsburg. Memorials: Online condolences may be expressed at www.devoefuneral.com. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations be sent to American Diabetes Association, 1160 Rte. 22 East, Suite #103, Bridgewater NJ 08807. Tributes: Tribute from: Cindy and Tom Williams Our heartfelt condolonces are sent to Joe, Pat, Debbie, Patrick, Rosie and the Caffiero family. Jay was a wonderful man and will be missed! Tribute from: Joe Scalzadonna Jay,,you will be missed deeply by all of us who knew you,,, you are a wonderful father, husband,son, and friend. Tribute from: Jerry & Liz Dente Dear Pat and Joe - we were so very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I know how much you loved and worried about him and I know you will miss him terribly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Debbie and the children. I will ask the nuns at McAuley to pray for Jay and your family. Take care, Liz & Jerry. Tribute from: Tracy Leaver There are no words, just heart felt sadness for Debbie, Patrick and Rose and the rest of both families and friends. I know that Jeff, for a very long time, will truly miss his friend Jay and their daily conversations. Tribute from: Connor Gruber And Family Connor is a classmate of Patrick and wanted to to send out his deepest condolences to Patrick and his family..He wants Patrick to know he is here for him, and said, he's glad he has a twin, because he is a twin too, and his twin Wyatt is always there for him as he knows Rosemarie will be for Patrick. Tribute from: Nicholas Hildebrant To Patrick and family~ I am in Patrick's class and he is my friend. I feel sad for him. Your Dad was a very great man, I liked meeting him at my birthday party.